No ethical counselor enters the profession and anticipates skipping over or ignoring a group in need of help. But in reality, some client populations aren’t easily reached or don’t readily avail themselves of counseling services. And others are simply overlooked, for one reason or another.
To shed light on a few of these underserved groups, Counseling Today asked five American Counseling Association members to share their experiences of actively reaching out to, connecting with and advocating for client populations that too often fly under the radar.
At times, Derrick Paladino still gets choked up talking about the prayer he would say nightly while in elementary school. It was a prayer offered by a little boy who desperately wanted to fit in. “I wish I woke up White,” he would pray before going to sleep.
At that point, Paladino, whose mother was born in Puerto Rico and whose father was second-generation Italian American, was the only non-White student at his school in a small Connecticut town. Now an assistant professor and chair of the Department of Graduate Studies in Counseling at Rollins College, Paladino says he felt his “differentness” every day at school. The discriminatory remarks he heard from other kids didn’t help.
Paladino’s mother, who was religious, would remind him to say his prayers at night. After shutting his eyes and wishing to look a little more like his father and everyone else at school, Paladino would wake up each morning and walk to an oval mirror in the hallway. “I would look, and I wouldn’t be White, and I would feel the disappointment,” says Paladino, coauthor with Richard Henriksen Jr. of Counseling Multiple Heritage Individuals, Couples and Families, which is published by ACA.
Even when he entered college at the University of Florida, Paladino didn’t feel like he fit in anywhere. He received invitations to join Latino student groups but felt like a fraud because he didn’t speak Spanish fluently. “I wasn’t whole of anything,” he says.
But a few years later, sitting in a multicultural counseling class in his master’s program at Florida, he read about a biracial identity model developed by Carlos Poston. It became Paladino’s “aha” moment. “It was me on paper,” says Paladino, who also runs a private practice in Winter Park, Fla. “It was making sense of how I pushed away from my mom, because being brown was bad where I lived, and how I figured out how to navigate through life and my environments. It was a moment of change when I figured out, ‘I need to focus on who I am and how this identity affects me, and I need to do more with it.’ I could then also celebrate my multiracial identity and see the strengths that come with it.”
Looking back, Paladino says he didn’t understand what he was going through until stumbling across the topic in his master’s program. “We’re invisible,” says Paladino, who gets a wide variety of responses when he asks students in some of his classes to write down what they think his race/ethnicity is. “We sort of fade into an invisible population. I don’t think it’s intentional that we’ve been underserved, I think it’s just how it’s been. It only becomes intentional when the population is recognized and nothing is done, which can occur with those who have a bias against interracial relationships, transracial adoption and multiracial individuals.”
People identify themselves differently, says Paladino, who explains that while he might identify as biracial, others might identify as multiple heritage. The concept goes beyond race to include culture and religion as well, he says. The 2000 Census was the first to allow respondents to check off more than one race, and Paladino says the response was significant — more than 6.8 million people identified as multiracial.
As part of his dissertation in 2004, Paladino conducted a national study on alienation, cultural congruity and self-concept of multiple-heritage college students. It was one of the first studies conducted on the topic of multiple-heritage experiences. “We found all these biracial and multiracial support groups around the nation,” he says. “But what we found was, even in the support groups, the multiracial students were still doing worse. It showed this population was still struggling.”
As he was growing up, Paladino remembers lacking someone to confide in when he was feeling like an outsider. “I didn’t know where to go. I couldn’t talk to my parents because they were of one race, so they couldn’t share my experience with me. For a lot of these individuals, it can be a very solitary life. Unless people reach out and say, ‘I can understand what you’re going through. Let me offer a place where you can let that out,’ they may be holding onto it. We need to stand up as mental health professionals and do some social justice and advocacy work for these individuals.”
In 2009, Paladino created a student group to actively address these needs on the Rollins campus. Named the Multiethnic Student Society by the students, the group provides a space for its roughly 15 members to have conversations and share details about their cultures. The group has also sponsored campus panels on the topics of interfaith and interracial couples. Paladino hopes the group’s work at the college will reach those who need support.
Paladino’s focus is on reaching out to multiracial students on campus and raising awareness of the needs of multiracial individuals among future counselors. He says private practitioners would do well to add the identity topic to their websites, visit community groups such as Swirl (swirlinc.org), which has mixed-race community chapters, and reach out to this population through social media, such as the Facebook pages maintained by multicultural groups. Counselor educators should be deliberate about addressing this population when teaching multicultural classes and consider bringing in guest speakers, he adds.
It’s a good idea for counselors to allow clients to “check all that apply” for race/ethnicity questions on the intake form, Paladino says. “This allows individuals to be all that they are and gives them a voice right from the beginning.” But never assume that a client who is multiracial is coming in to address identity issues, he cautions. “Focus on their presenting problem first and just be with them. From there you will find out if identity is something that is connected to their issue.”
With clients who do come to counseling to work on identity issues, Paladino uses bibliotherapy, steers them toward websites that help them see they’re not alone and encourages them to explore all sides of their racial and cultural heritage, which might mean engaging in discussions with family members, immersing themselves in each heritage or joining cultural groups. In addition, he says, “I like to let them just have a place to vent and feel like there is nothing wrong with them. Just empathize with the struggle.”
ACA offers a free Multiracial/Multiethnic Counseling Concerns Interest Network for interested members. The facilitator is Kelley Kenney (email@example.com). To join the interest network, e-mail Holly Clubb at ACA at firstname.lastname@example.org.
Plain and simple, too few mental health counselors are available in Appalachian communities, says Kathryn Russ, assistant professor and regional academic director in the School of Professional Counseling at Lindsey Wilson College (LWC). But Russ and LWC are aiming to change that — one well-educated counselor at a time.
While earning her doctorate at the University of Cincinnati, Russ completed an internship at a community clinic in Appalachia, a cultural region that runs along the central and southern portions of the Appalachian Mountains, stretching from southern New York to northern Alabama, Mississippi and Georgia. She developed a passion for the culture and became intrigued by what worked — and what didn’t — when it came to delivering counseling services in Appalachian communities. About four years ago, she was drawn to LWC mainly because of its strong Appalachian student culture and its initiative to partner with local community colleges to offer a two-year master’s program in mental health counseling.
“People of Appalachian culture prefer to attend classes near home, and by training local people, we provide trained professionals for these underserved areas,” says Russ, who teaches at a handful of LWC’s extended campuses and serves as clinical supervisor for the Maysville, Ky., site. “Our graduates tend to stay in the ‘home’ territory and work in local schools, public and private mental health agencies, women’s shelters and drug rehab organizations.”
People rooted in Appalachian culture tend to score higher in levels of depression and somatization in comparison with average Americans, Russ says. “For practical purposes, this indicates that people of Appalachian culture need mental health assistance. People who are depressed tend to not form optimal parenting bonds, which means intergenerational problems. They also tend to self-medicate with alcohol and drugs. The heightened somatization scores often mean that people go to their medical doctor for relief of symptomatology and are prescribed medications, [which] too often become addictive.”
Counselors stand the best chance of making a difference in these tight-knit communities by simply placing themselves there, getting involved in the life of the community and actively reaching out, Russ says. “Word of mouth is very important. If the client knows of the counselor, has family that knows the therapist, or if they hear about the counselor through their church community, for example, the client is much more likely to seek professional help if the need arises. This means that counselors cannot just sit in their office waiting for people to come in.” To begin establishing bonds with the people of Appalachia, Russ recommends that counselors volunteer in the community, give talks at community gatherings or attend social gatherings at local churches. Another key to helping, Russ says, is to train local people to become counselors because they’re already part of the community’s kinship circle.
“Career counseling is another great way to approach people because it is socially acceptable and there is no stigma involved,” Russ says. Another means of access is collaborating with drug rehab centers and shelters. “The client has usually formed a relationship with the referring agency,” Russ says, “and their stamp of approval makes the client feel safer in coming to you for therapy.”
A few years ago, Russ decided to investigate the most effective ways for students and counselors to work within the Appalachian culture. Many of her findings emerged from observations made at a community counseling clinic in Ashland, Ky., but Russ also worked with other LWC faculty members and spoke with former clients who had chosen not to return to LWC clinics as well as those who decided to continue therapy. From that research, she developed a bullet list of advice. Among her tips for counselors: Active listening is very important; try to see the client’s perspective; include family, community and church in interventions whenever possible.
Russ offers a wealth of other information to counselors who encounter clients with roots in Appalachia. At the top of the list? Not being overly task oriented, she says. “It is necessary to always chat first, then go on with therapy. This is how you show respect for them as people.”
Russ also recommends some level of self-disclosure. “I don’t mean telling everything about yourself. Just let people know that you are a spouse or a parent, that you like to garden or you love lemon meringue pie. People of Appalachian culture need and want this type of background information. It lets them know you are somebody like them, and that makes them feel safer, that you can relate to them.”
Counselors should be wary of coming across as an expert or “know-it-all” to these clients, Russ cautions. “Nondirective works much better. Otherwise, they may feel you have gotten ‘above your raising,’ which is a big no-no in this culture. They frequently don’t like being asked direct questions. For example, rather than saying, ‘What did you do this past weekend?’ you might say, ‘We had some great weather this last weekend. Hope you enjoyed it.’ The person being addressed then has a choice of saying yes or no and sharing what they did — but they don’t have to if they don’t want to. Silence, which can be very hard, is a good method to use. You sometimes have to wait a long time for a response, but it is worth waiting for.”
Russ, who uses people-oriented, cognitive behavioral, narrative and reality therapies with clients of Appalachian culture, says confidentiality is of the utmost importance in building and maintaining the counselor/client relationship with this population. “If they trust you with a family secret, to them, that’s like being given the family jewel. They don’t share family secrets, so if they do with a therapist, the client needs to be absolutely certain that it’s not going to go any further.”
Every year for the past four years, David Hof, an associate professor in the Counseling and School Psychology Department at the University of Nebraska at Kearney, has taken a group of students to the Pine Ridge Reservation in the southwest corner of South Dakota. Hof and his students don’t go with the intent of scheduling one-hour sessions or diagnosing tribe members with mental disorders. They go with the goal of developing relationships with the people on the reservation, normalizing the concept of counseling and teaching the graduate students about Native American culture. The hope is that the experience will help the counselors-in-training to develop into culturally aware and culturally effective care providers.
The eighth-largest reservation in the nation, Pine Ridge, which is home to the Oglala Lakota tribe, is also the poorest. Hof calls the reservation’s inhabitants “one of the most underserved, oppressed populations in the U.S.” To back that up, he points to a 2006 article that produced startling statistics: Teenage suicide rates on the reservation are 150 percent higher than the national average, infant mortality is 300 percent higher than the national average, the school dropout rate exceeds 70 percent, and more than half of the reservation’s adults battle addiction and disease.
Hof, who also works in private practice and is a past chair of ACA’s Midwest Region, had what he calls a mainly Caucasian Midwest upbringing. But he developed a friendship with a fellow master’s student from Pine Ridge and then went on to complete an internship at a reservation in Minnesota while earning his doctorate from the University of South Dakota. When he arrived at the University of Nebraska at Kearney 12 years ago, Hof quickly realized exposing counseling students to Native American culture would be beneficial.
Advocacy equates to service in the counseling profession, says Hof, who adds that he’s inspired to help not only because of the reservation’s close proximity to the university and desperate need for mental health services but because it’s part of the counseling profession’s mission. “It’s not a choice,” he says. “It is ethically our responsibility to advocate for underserved populations.”
So each August, Hof’s student group heads to Pine Ridge for a little less than a week. They stay on the reservation with Dallas Chief Eagle, a storyteller, touring artist and director of the Hoop Dance Academy. What’s most important, Dallas Chief Eagle tells Hof, is that the students come, listen, learn about the culture and then share that increased understanding with others. On the most recent visit, Hof and the students participated in a three-and-a-half-hour sweat lodge ceremony. The reservation’s leaders don’t want the students to come as tourists, Hof says, but rather to participate in the rituals so they gain a deeper understanding of the community’s culture.
Hof’s hope is that some of the counseling students who take part in the trips will develop a passion for the culture and one day choose to provide services on the reservation as a career. But even for those who go on to work elsewhere, the trips provide a greater understanding of the culture and should partially equip them to more effectively treat Native American clients in various settings, Hof says.
While on the reservation, Hof and his students try to demystify the concept of counseling and refine it so that it will be more culturally acceptable to the people of Pine Ridge. One of the most frequent complaints his groups hear is that the mental health field is driven by diagnosis, Hof says. If a client explains that he’s hearing his ancestors talk to him, a counselor unfamiliar with Native American culture might think the client is delusional, on drugs or making up stories. Counselors must allow space for Native American clients to share their feelings and experiences without feeling judged, Hof emphasizes.
People on the reservation are more likely to go to a family member or a medicine man rather than go outside the culture or reservation for help, Hof says. That means counselors working with Native American clients might want to consider collaborating with service providers on the reservation or close by. “To work with a medicine man or to include dialogue and work around the seven sacred rites” — seven sacred ceremonies that include the sweat lodge and vision quest — “can be critical to change,” he says. The job of the counselor advocate, Hof continues, might involve connecting the client with appropriate services. “If my client has been trained in the Lakota way, it may be necessary for them to participate in a sweat lodge or a sun dance to achieve wellness. To be able to suspend judgment and understand behavior in the context of culture seems critical.”
Counselors might assume that a client-centered approach based on the relationship would work best with Native Americans, but Hof says a more direct approach that still retains an emphasis on the relationship seems to be most effective. “For mental health issues, an individual might meet with their medicine man for help,” Hof explains. “It would not be out of the ordinary for the medicine man to prescribe participation in a sweat lodge or other traditional healing methods. In much the same way, when an individual comes to counseling, they may be looking for more direct feedback on what they are to do for change to happen.”
Dallas Chief Eagle has emphasized the importance of counselors simply listening. “Please, please, please, just be willing to hear their stories,” the leader has told Hof. Dallas Chief Eagle’s advice is to refrain from diving straight into treatment planning with Native Americans and instead to get to know who these people are and to form a relationship with them. “That’s not dissimilar to what counselors do anyway,” Hof says, “but to have that context in mind is significant.”
From his years of experience visiting the reservation, Hof has learned that the most effective counselor works as part of the system instead of operating outside of it. “It is our belief that by understanding a person’s culture and having a willingness to work in the context of their culture, there is a better chance of having a meaningful interaction,” he says. “That’s really nothing new — just good multicultural counseling skills.”
Dustin Shepler reflects on a 16-year-old male client’s struggle with being a dual minority. “He felt that while his sexual minority and his biracial identities were both acceptable to him, others discounted the sincerity of his identification with his gay identity because of his age, and others minimized his biracial heritage because of his light skin tone,” says Shepler, a doctoral student in counseling psychology and guidance services at Ball State University. “The key to working with this teen was validating both identities and giving him time to talk about the parts of his heritage that others had ignored, but at the same time, not minimizing his other concerns about sexual behavior and academic problems or reducing him to two labels.”
Thanks to his own identity development process and a strong interest in multicultural issues, Shepler developed a passion for learning more about counseling dual-minority clients — those who claim both racial/ethnic and sexual minority membership status. “My experience working with clients had made it apparent that people do not only see themselves as one demographic label but instead switch seamlessly between different facets of their identities throughout counseling sessions,” says Shepler, who counsels clients at three locations and teaches an undergraduate sexuality course at Ball State.
Advocating for groups that are sometimes overlooked, such as dual-minority clients, is essential, Shepler says. “Advocacy and serving those who are often pushed to the fringe of society provides ways to increase cultural understanding, serves as a basis for developing more competent practice guidelines by including members of communities for which treatments are designed and improves the mental health of different communities, which is good for all in our society. With advocacy, everybody wins.”
To reach out to this group, Shepler started a safe place for gay/lesbian/bisexual/transgender/queer (GLBTQ) students at Earlham University, where he is completing an external practicum. He contacted the leaders of a GLBTQ campus organization to find out what counseling services might be of use, and they allowed Shepler access to their electronic mailing list. The eventual result was the formation of a GLBTQ discussion and support group.
In addition, Shepler is investigating the possibility of developing an online community to better reach international students at Earlham. “Many international students struggle about being openly out about their sexual orientation on college campuses because they fear other students from their home country will find out and ‘report’ the information to others in their country of origin,” he says. “This makes it especially difficult for this specific type of dual-minority student to interact within the GLBTQ community and receive affirmation as a sexual or gender minority.”
Although it’s important for counselors to build relationships with members of minority communities, Shepler says few counselor education programs teach counselors-in-training how to accomplish that. “Learning how to build community ties and improve outreach effectiveness based on research should better be incorporated into counseling preparation programs,” he says. “Supervisors also have a unique opportunity to improve supervisee competency by engaging in and modeling how to discuss race, sexuality and gender.” In his own role as a supervisor, Shepler has noticed that master’s students are often uncomfortable at the start of these discussions but grateful for the training by the end. “Working with students to actually learn the skills that are mentioned in various courses is a great way to prepare them to become involved in outreach and decrease fear surrounding issues that have historically been politically charged.”
When beginning work with any client, Shepler recommends having an open discussion about the client’s expectations as well as your expectations as the counselor. “I also assess clients’ racial and sexual identity development statuses in order to tailor treatment and approach topics in a manner consistent with how clients see the world from their own developmental perspectives. Usually this involves listening for race-based and sexuality-based comments. Most recently, one of my clients discussed how LGBT allies ‘were trying to claim a status’ [for] which they couldn’t appreciate the complexity or experience of being — i.e., LGBT. This is an indication that she is still in a state of emersion/immersion or, to use [Vivienne] Cass’ term, pride.”
Further into counseling, recognizing and exploring experiences of oppression is an excellent way to understand how a client perceives his or her life experiences, Shepler says. “Dual-minority clients are often left wondering if it was their race/ethnicity or their sexual orientation that caused someone else to react in a discriminatory way, and exploring this in counseling can be an invaluable experience. While White GLB people or racial minorities are left to wonder about discrimination, the added layer of a dual-minority identity is something that is sometimes difficult for GLB people of color to discuss with White GLB community members, just as it is difficult for many White GLB people to discuss instances of perceived discrimination with heterosexual friends. The added layer of ambiguity coupled with feelings of discomfort and possible fear of disclosing a sexual minority identity within a racial/ethnic community leaves individuals with few resources from which they can gain support.”
Shepler discloses his own identity as a gay man when working with sexual minority clients and emphasizes that, although he is White, he is open to race-based discussions. “I believe it is the counselor’s responsibility to be willing to introduce sensitive topics. Opening the door to difficult discussions early on is key in helping clients establish a strong working relationship and, I believe, is essential in preventing early termination.”
Counselors need to realize that in many racial and ethnic minority cultures, sexuality and gender expression are viewed as inseparable, which affects the language the client uses, Shepler says. “When same-sex-attracted clients from racial minority groups reject a GLB label while still discussing same-sex attractions or sexual behaviors, counselors may erroneously assume that clients are in the early stages of developing a sexual minority identity and resort to typically ‘White’ ways of labeling sexual orientation, causing them to refer to clients as gay, lesbian or bisexual, even when the client rejects such labels.”
Using language consistent with how the client sees himself — for example “down low” or even straight — is important, Shepler says. Overlap in sexual orientation and gender identity might cause some clients to maintain a straight identity even alongside same-sex attractions and relationships. “One way to address this issue,” he says, “is by asking clients about their sexual past, not just assuming that a label holds similar meaning for both White and racial minority clients.”
Regardless of his clients’ racial and sexual identity status, Shepler tends to blend systems theory, interpersonal theory and some feminist principles in his counseling. “When used together, it becomes possible to examine the multiple oppressions experienced by dual-minority clients on both the systematic or societal level, as well as the interactions between myself and the client, to make sure that the client’s needs are being met.”
To his fellow counselors, Shepler stresses the importance of reaching out. “When I begin working in any new setting, the first thing I do is consult with clinicians who have been there for some time and likely have some knowledge of the clientele, even if they do not have strong relationships with either racial or sexual minority communities.” The next step is reaching out to leaders in the community, he says. “Eliciting the approval of community leaders may be more important in some communities than others. Nonetheless, fostering such a relationship by listening to leaders and community members, as well as offering support and possibly services for communitywide programs, not just dual-minority community members, shows a real commitment to helping a community instead of just wanting to build a clientele or fill slots on an appointment calendar.”
Suzanne Mudge, associate professor in the Leadership and Counseling Department at Texas A&M University–San Antonio, doesn’t think college is necessarily the right choice for every individual. “But,” she says, “everyone should be able to choose whether they want to participate or not.”
Creating a college-going culture is one focus of a grant that AT&T awarded Mudge and her colleague Patricia Henderson to improve counseling services for underserved students. AT&T’s original idea behind the $500,000 grant was to provide other types of counselors to schools in addition to the already existing pool of school counselors. Mudge, who won the grant while working at Our Lady of the Lake University, had a different idea. Because school counselors are trained as professional counselors, the schools didn’t need to be fortified with other types of counselors “to do the counseling,” she told AT&T, but the existing school counselors would benefit from receiving additional support. AT&T agreed, and the mission evolved into designing four years of a comprehensive developmental guidance program aimed at underserved students. The curriculums would then be taught to school counselors over four consecutive summers. A fifth summer would equip counselors in the program to go out and train other counselors in their districts.
Three high schools in San Antonio — two in the Northside Independent School District and one in the San Antonio Independent School District — were selected to be part of the program. These schools include a high percentage of free- and reduced-lunch students, many of whom would be the first in their families to attend college. “We picked the neediest schools,” says Mudge, who spent 25 years as a teacher and school counselor.
School counselors from the three high schools aren’t the only ones receiving training. Part of the grant provides scholarships for graduate students who want to train to become school counselors, and priority is given to teachers within these participating schools, says Mudge, who explains that two years of teaching are required to become a school counselor in Texas.
The objective of the grant and summer training, Mudge says, is four-pronged: improving services to students, increasing resources for school counselors, assisting with the development of the professional school counselor identity and assisting with program implementation. In addition to summer training sessions, meetings are held during the year to discuss progress, needs and concerns. Mudge and Henderson also visit the schools throughout the year.
The first summer session kicked off in 2009 with about 20 counselors and counselors-in-training, and the focus was on creating a guidance curriculum for freshman students. “Counselors are taught how to align the guidance lessons with guidance content, academic standards and college and career readiness standards, while focusing on equity and access issues surrounding postsecondary opportunities for underserved/underrepresented students,” Mudge says.
This past summer’s session added a focus on responsive services and emphasized small-group counseling and remediation of developmental skills that the students needed, Mudge says. Future summers will add developmentally appropriate sessions designed by participating counselors for high school juniors and seniors, while guidance lessons and individualized student planning will continue to emphasize college and career readiness and postsecondary planning, Mudge says. The school counselors aren’t given exact, word-by-word curriculums to follow throughout the year. Instead, Mudge says, the program teaches the counselors how to develop the material on the basis of each school’s specific needs.
In more affluent school districts, students are more likely to receive counseling services privately when needed, Mudge says. But in lower-income areas such as the ones this grant is focusing on, school counselors might be the only available option for students. “So it’s important that school counselors provide the best services they can because they might be the only services that student ever receives,” she says.
The program’s guidance curriculum adheres to a wellness model and aims to be in concert with the developmental stages of adolescents, Mudge says, which means understanding the skills those students might need in the near future and then going into classrooms and teaching those skills. “The guidance curriculum is anticipating the developmental snags that come along the way and teaching skills so that students aren’t snagged, so that they’re able to transition to the next level appropriately and easily.”
An important part of the high school experience is thinking about college, Mudge says, so preparing students to carefully consider that decision is a major emphasis of her message to school counselors. She tells counselors to first aim to understand and appreciate the environments their students are coming from. In the San Antonio area, many students come from families with limited education that haven’t previously experienced the path to college. When teachers and school counselors encourage students about college at school and those students then go home to families that view employment as the top priority, it can lead to very frustrated teenagers, Mudge says. “Every day, that kid comes from a home that has a different set of values and a different vision than the counselors experience. You need to dig deep [to] understand the context the student comes from so you can appropriately serve them.”
Part of serving these families means recognizing that upbringing and providing options, says Mudge, who is in the process of planning college and career information sessions for students’ families at the three high schools. “The choice comes through education,” she says. “The family can be educated along with the students.” That might mean showing comparative salaries for high school-educated versus college-educated graduates and explaining scholarship and financial aid options, she says.
It’s also vitally important to have an open-door policy, Mudge says. “The best way is to know the community in which you live and to have opportunities for families to come on your [high-school] campus to talk about what their concerns are and then address those concerns.” For example, if a student’s parents say they can’t afford to send their child to college, talk about financial options. If they’re worried their child won’t be safe, Mudge might recommend that the family visit the college campus and look at police reports. Whatever the situation, school counselors should discuss the vision parents have for their child and the best avenue to follow to turn that vision into reality, Mudge says.
Throughout the process, school counselors must be careful not to give the impression that they are trying to strip parents of their power, Mudge says. “You don’t tell them, ‘This is what you need to do for your child to be successful.’ Tell them, ‘Your child is interested in this. This is what we have been talking about,’ and then ask [the parents] what they think.”
Lynne Shallcross is a senior writer for Counseling Today. Contact her at email@example.com.
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