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A positive mother-son relationship has a positive impact in teen years

Heather Rudow August 30, 2011

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A newly published study focusing on the relationships between low-income mothers and their sons living in Pittsburgh found that while it is normal for the relationship between a mother and son to change over time, the way that relationship changes can affect the boy’s behavior later in life.

The Wayne State University-led study surveyed 265 mother-and-son pairs over the course of 10 years, beginning when the boys were 5 and ending at age 15. According to a Wayne State news release, the researchers looked at the neighborhood the families were living in, the mother’s relationship with her partner, the quality of parenting provided by the mother and the child’s temperament, the level of conflict and warmth between mothers and sons, and the boys’ delinquent behavior, relationships with best friends and sense of morality during adolescence.

The researchers discovered that the mothers of boys who had a difficult temperament when they younger reported less closeness over time as well as higher levels of conflict. The boys who reported higher levels of conflict with their mothers were also “more likely to engage in delinquent behavior as teens.” Mothers with better relationships with their significant others reported better, long-lasting relationships with their sons, and sons who reported being closer with their mothers were “more likely to have a better relationship with their best friends during the teen years.”

1 Comment

  1. Sudha Simpson

    I’m Mother of three. My son’s father took custody of my middle son when he was young, 6 yrs. old. my son lived with his father nd step mom until his father died in my son’s senior year at H.S. he stay with my relatives in Calfornia till 2013. he is now 22 years old has moved to MI. BUT blames me for his childhood. I would like counseling because he has problems, with jobs, I and stable housing.

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